Well here it is, my first blog ever. Before I start for those who don't read the "About" first, I wanted to start the blog because I know everyone is this world goes through struggles, and not many of us have others to go to and talk to about it. I have my struggles and I want to share them with you guys to let you know you're not alone. I want to be a voice for people who don't have one.
One of my favorite quotes of all time.
I named my first blog "Never give up" because we have all once in our lives felt not good enough, whether it's in a relationship, in school, being a friend, being a daughter/son, we've all felt like we were ever never enough and want to give it up! Well I'm here to tell you NEVER GIVE UP! Here's why:
I want to start with the first subjects, not feeling enough in relationships. I have had my heart broken way too many times, that I think I might just stay single forever. Jk, maybe not forever but you know. I can tell you from experience I've never felt good enough for a guy. I've had guys who have told me they weren't ready for a relationship then 2 months later are in a relationship. Man, it eats you up. You start to wonder, damn, what's wrong with me? Was I not pretty enough? Well I'm here to tell you, SCREW THEM! Don't ever let someone question your worth, and if you're in a relationship where you have to question it, get out. You are enough! You deserve to feel worthy enough to love someone. You are beautiful and you deserve to feel enough to someone who can tell you that everyday! We all deserve that. If a guy makes you feel like you're not good enough, there is NOTHING wrong with you! Something is wrong with him for not seeing the amazing person you are! Never give up on finding someone who makes you feel how you deserve to feel. ❤️
If you're a student like me, you've probably felt like this before. You failed that exam that you've studied so hard for, and now you feel like nothing is going right, and you feel like a disappointment to everyone, especially your parents (if you've told them). Or you failed a entrance exam and you don't know if you are ever going to be good enough to go to medical school, or beauty school, or whatever school you take an exam for to get into. Well guys, life is tricky sometimes, I've had this feeling many times in school, and I'm pretty sure I will feel like more and more. My only fear is not passing the class or not graduating. I'm already a year behind. But I'm here to tell you, there is no timeline. So what you failed? You know what you do, you pick yourself up and give yourself a pep talk and tell yourself YOU CAN DO THIS! Everyone goes through it, it's just a matter of believing in yourself and picking yourself up to do it all over again, and this time, give it all you've got & NEVER GIVE UP!!!!
Have you ever had to question if you are a good enough friend or daughter/son? I have! 🙋🏽 We all have at some point! I'm the friend who always wants to make my other friends happy, and sometimes that doesn't even seem enough. What's that quote? If you aren't loosing friends, you aren't growing up? It's the truth. I've witness and experienced it. I am grateful for the amazing friends I have today, some I've know since 4th grade, and some I barley just met last year. But if you ever have to question yourself in a friendship, or if your friends are always judging you for who you are, & how you live your life, WALK AWAY! Friends will always come & go, especially if you're in High School & you're reading this, I'll tell you right now the friends you have now, you won't hear from them after graduation. Always remember YOU ARE ENOUGH!
If you love something/someone, don't give up! People always told me that I was going to change my major going into college, but the thing was, ever since I was a little girl, all I ever wanted to do was be in front of a camera, I loved it! I still have a long way to go, and I'm not even close to where I want to be, but I will tell you, I will not give up on my dream! It's something I'm very proud of and it's MY dream! Don't give up on something that's YOURS, something you love, something you can't see yourself not doing for the rest of your life. It's never too late, keep your head up, make a difference in this crazy world, and make a difference in someone too.
Thank you so much for reading my blog, I know I have a lot more work to do. But this is first of many. If you have questions, advice or just need someone to talk to, click the "Contact" box and message me.
Thanks,
Vee 💛
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